For most men and women, it is a natural expectation that should they
desire to become a father or a mother, they will conceive a child or children
of their own. And for the vast majority, this expectation is, thankfully,
realised and celebrated.
But, alas, for some this will not be the case. For many reasons and for
some reasons as yet unknown, the joy and privilege of natural parenthood
is denied them. The disappointment, the hurt, the disbelief, the guilt,
the sorrow, the hope and hopelessness, the loss and even despair all combine
to cause confusion, strain and doubt to their relationship. And all this
shrouded in the cloak of sorrow.
Couples who find themselves with this burden to carry can feel helpless,
hopeless and a failure. Would it help to talk to a counsellor who will
listen, who understands, and who can empathise? Being understood can be
helpful but better still is help the couple to continue to value their
self-worth, continue to respect each other and continue to grow in their
love for one another.
This service is to help a couple realise the full potential of their
relationship in the midst of their sadness and disappointment.
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